Thursday, September 25, 2008

Proud Mamma!

Child​ren'​s Name(​s)​?​
Sarah Faith
Cory Wayne

How long did labor​ last?
Sarah - 20hrs
Cory - 32 hrs


How long did you push?
Sarah - an hour
Cory - under an hour


Did you go all natural or drugs or c-section?
drugs!!

Boy or Girl?
1 boy, 1 girl

Weigh​t?​
Sarah 6lb 13 oz
Cory 8lb 1 oz


Inches long?
19,21


ANY HAIR?
no hair!

​how much weigh​t did you gain while​ pregn​ant?​
25 with both

Did you lose it all?
yea right!

Was baby early​ or late?
2 weeks early for both

Who drove​ you to the hospi​tal?​
Mike

Did you breas​tfeed​?​
yeah...Sarah for 4 months....Cory 6 months

Who keeps​ your baby the most?
ME!!!!

How did you pick the name?
They are both names after friends. Cory's middle name is after my dad. God just knew that Sarah would need faith

Who cut the cord?
Mike

Where​ was the baby born?
both at Benefis in Great Falls

Did you video​ tape the birth​?​
no

Who was in the room with you?
Just Mike

Do you want to have anoth​er?​
yep maybe after we get to England


REPOS​T IT AS :::
*ALL PROUD​ MOMMI​ES FILL THIS OUT

Tuesday, September 09, 2008

I've been tagged!

1. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE: nope
2. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED: thursday
3. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING: not at all
4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT: turkey
5. DO YOU HAVE KIDS: yep two adorable ones
6. IF YOU WERE ANOTHER PERSON WOULD YOU BE FRIENDS WITH YOU: I hope so
7. DO YOU USE SARCASM: not usually
8. DO YOU STILL HAVE YOUR TONSILS:no
9. WOULD YOU BUNGEE JUMP:not at all
10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CEREAL: oatmeal
11. DO YOU UNTIE YOUR SHOES WHEN YOU TAKE THEM OFF: yea
12. DO YOU THINK THAT YOU ARE STRONG: yea, strong enough to live through a deployment
13. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ICE CREAM: vanilla with caramel topping
14. WHAT IS THE FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT PEOPLE: their hair
15. RED OR PINK: red
16. WHAT IS THE LEAST FAVORITE THING ABOUT YOURSELF: wanting everything to be right
17. WHO DO YOU MISS THE MOST: Sarah
18. DO YOU WANT EVERYONE TO SEND THIS BACK TO YOU: only if they want to
19. WHAT COLOR PANTS AND SHOES ARE YOU WEARING: blue sweats and barefoot
20. WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE: dinner
21. WHAT ARE YOU listening to RIGHT NOW:my mom talking
22. IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOR WOULD YOU BE: RED!
23. FAVORITE SMELLS: wood stoves in the winter
24. WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON YOU TALKED TO ON THE PHONE: my mom
25. DO YOU LIKE THE PERSON WHO SENT THIS TO YOU: David! YEA!
26. FAVORITE SPORTS TO WATCH: volleyball, football
27. HAIR COLOR: strawberry blond with red
28. EYE COLOR: blue
29. DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS:no
30. FAVORITE FOOD: chia seeds
31. SCARY MOVIES OR HAPPY ENDINGS: happy endings
32. LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED: Snow Buddies
33. WHAT COLOR SHIRT ARE YOU WEARING: brown
34. SUMMER OR WINTER: winter....let it snow let it snow let it snow
35. HUGS OR KISSES: kisses
36. FAVORITE DESSERT: cobbler, crisp or cheesecake
37. MOST LIKELY TO RESPOND: I don't know
38. LEAST LIKELY TO RESPOND: Laura Beth.....she should be in labor any day now!
39. WHAT BOOK ARE YOU READING NOW:the Bible
40. WHAT IS ON YOUR MOUSE PAD: nothing
41. WHAT DID YOU WATCH ON TV LAST NIGHT: nothing
42. FAVORITE SOUND:my husband's voice
43. ROLLING STONES OR BEATLES: neither
44. WHAT IS THE FARTHEST YOU HAVE BEEN FROM HOME: TX until May when I will be in England
45. DO YOU HAVE A SPECIAL TALENT:scrapbooking!
46. WHERE WERE YOU BORN: Worland, Wyoming
47. WHOSE ANSWERS ARE YOU LOOKING FORWARD TO GETTING BACK: I tag Vonnie & Sarah (so she will post something)

Thursday, September 04, 2008

I did it!

I just want to thank you all for your help with my web site. I changed it to http://livingwords.uppercaseliving.net

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Help! I am in a quandary

I have been debating this for a while and just decided to ask my creative blog friends to help me. Uppercase Living has given us web sites to post our business on the web. We have known about this for a while but I was on vacation and did not take a lot of thought to think about the name f my web site. Right now it is http://lifeexpressions.uppercaseliving.net. I have a few problems with this now that I have created it. 1. It is long! If I want to put this on the side of my car it would take the whole side of my van! 2. I don't like having the two "e's" together. I need your help in deciding if it is worth changing and if there is something better that is not already taken. Here are some of my thoughts: 1. katie is taken 2. katieg is taken 3. Glathar more often than not gets misspelled. 4. I just can't think of a fun creative word that has not been used already. Please help me out! Ideas....

Saturday, August 23, 2008

Happy 3rd Birthday, Princess!


I always dreamed of being a mother but I never expected that it would take me down this road. My Sarah has grown up so fast. I can't believe she is 3! Her birthday is going to be spread out over a few days. Wednesday we went out to dinner with family and she got her own dessert. Today she had a fun trip to the park with Abie. Lord willing, we will have a trip to Wyoming and we will celebrate there too with all of the other Frederick's that are celebrating in August and September. What a joy!


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Thursday, August 14, 2008

We are back!

We are back from our vacation to the Oregon coast! We had a good time but after 4 days in the care to get home we are ready to be here. I put some new pictures up but I will tell the stories later.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Off like a herd of turtles....

Vacation has finally come. We are doing the last bit of packing and then we will be off to Missoula. We had a fun weekend with my parents and even floated the Missouri. I am VERY sun burned (yes I used sun screen)! From Missoula we will be in Spokane then to Portland and then a week on the coast! YAHOO! Can't wait! Love you all!

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Thanks 'Sister!'

I got this from a dear 'Sister' and I am sending it to you blogland 'Sisters!'


A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter
'Don't forget your Sisters,' she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. 'They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.'
'Remember that 'Sisters' means ALL the women... your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women relatives too. 'You'll need other women. Women always do.'
What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought. Haven't I just gotten married?
Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!'
But she listened to her Mother. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Ssters are the mainstays of her life.
After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:
THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes. Life happens. Distance separates. Children grow up. Jobs come and go. Love waxes and wanes. Men don't do what they're supposed to do. Hearts break. Parents die. Colleagues forget favors. Careers end.
BUT.........
Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end.
Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you...Or come in and carry you out.Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!
The world wouldn't be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Every day, we need each other still. Pass this on to all the women who help make your life meaningful.
I just did. Short and very sweet:
There are more than twenty angels in this world.
Ten are peacefully sleeping on clouds. Nine are playing. And one is reading her email at this moment.
Send this to all the the great 'Sisters' in your life, including the one who sent it to you!

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Spring?

Most of you are enjoying nice spring weather. We here in Montana have a few inches of snow (enough to cover the grass and rip the trees of any leaves they had). I am going to take some pictures and will post them later.

Friday, May 30, 2008

Bio

I had to write a Bio for my Uppercase Living Newsletter and I thought that I would share it with you. We all need to see on paper that we actually have accomplished something not just doing the monotonous tasks of laundry, meals, and cleaning.

Raised on a farm in rural Montana near Power, Katie Glathar knows hard work first hand. She attended Eastern Washington University for a few years before returning to Great Falls working as a Flex Plan Administrator. Shortly thereafter she met her husband, Mike at Great Falls Christian Center. In 2003 she began her challenging career as an Air Force wife. Her passion is helping people have a deeper connection to the church through small groups and encouraging other mothers through hard years of motherhood by coordinating MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers). She currently has a 2 year old daughter, Sarah and 1 year old son, Cory. Being a mother is her most time-consuming task but very rewarding. She enjoys the outdoors and is very avid about nutrition. Her creative spirit is contagious as she enjoys scrap booking and blogging. For her, Uppercase Living has been a tool to express herself through words and an excuse to have a night out with the girls!

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Uppercase Living


I am so excited about this piece that I just finished. This picture really does not do this frame any justice but I thought I had to share. It says, " This is my beloved and this is my friend." The picture in the center is a picture that I took of a waterfall on our honeymoon. This is how easy it is to transform a picture into artwork with Uppercase Living.

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Jump

As most of you have probably heard we have a lot of snow here in Montana. I decided that we needed pictures. Summer came and took pictures for us and I could not help but get jumpping pictures for Susie! Keep warm!
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Sunday, April 20, 2008

Scrap booking...

Sometimes I will find a pattern and think this would be really cute background for a page. No I am not pregnant and looking for bedding (especially on Gap) but I was looking for clothes for pictures on the beach and this came up. I might have to duplicate this pattern and make a card or a background for a scrapbook page.
Somet

Monday, April 07, 2008

Something fun...comment with your answers

If all of the eight desserts listedbelow were sitting in front of you, which would you choose (sorry, you can only pick one)!

Here are your choices:
1. Angel Food Cake
2. Brownies
3. Lemon Meringue Pie
4. Vanilla Cake With Chocolate Icing
5. Strawberry Short Cake
6. Chocolate Cake With Chocolate Icing
7. Ice Cream
8. Carrot Cake

Think carefully about what your choice will be.














1. ANGEL FOOD CAKE -- Sweet, loving, cuddly. You love all warm and fuzzyitems. A little nutty at times. Sometimes you need an ice cream cone at the end of the day. Others perceive you as being childlike and immature at times.

2. BROWNIES -- You are adventurous, love new ideas, and are a champion of underdogs and a slayer of dragons. When tempers flare up you whip out your saber. You are always the oddball with a unique sense of humor and direction. You tend to be very loyal.

3. LEMON MERINGUE -- Smooth, sexy, & articulate with your hands, you are an excellent caregiver and a good teacher. But don't try to walk and chew gum at the same time. A bit of a diva at times, you set your own style because you do your own thing. You shine when it comes to helping others and have many friends.

4. VANILLA CAKE WITH CHOCOLATE ICING -- Fun-loving, sassy, humorous, not very grounded in life; very indecisive and lacking motivation. Everyone enjoys being around you, but you are a practical joker. Others should be cautious in making you mad. However, you are a friend for life.

5. STRAWBERRY SHORTCAKE -- Romantic, warm, loving. You care about other people, can be counted on in a pinch and expect the same in return. Intuitively keen. You can be very emotional at times but a true person in every way. You like to do things for yourself and help others learn about themselves.

6. CHOCOLATE CAKE WITH CHOCOLATE ICING -- Sexy; always ready to give and receive. Very creative, adventurous, ambitious, and passionate. You can appear to have a cold exterior but are warm on the inside. Not afraid to take chances. Will not settle for anything average in life. Love to laugh.

7. ICE CREAM -- You like sports, whether it be baseball, football, basketball, or soccer. If you could, you would like to participate, but you enjoy watching sports. You don't like to give up the remote control. You tend to be self-centered and high maintenance.

8... CARROT CAKE -- You are a very fun loving person, who likes to laugh. You are fun to be with. People like to hang out with you. You are a very warm hearted person and a little quirky at times. You have many loyal friends. You were meant to lead and teach others. A wonderful role model.

Tuesday, April 01, 2008

The 10 Best Foods You Aren't Eating

The 10 Best Foods You Aren't Eating

Want to do your body a world of good? It's as easy as expanding your grocery list.

By: Jonny Bowden, Ph. D.

Although some guys aren't opposed to smoking some weed, most wouldn't think of eating one. It's a shame, really, since a succulent weed named purslane is not only delicious but also among the world's healthiest foods.

Of course, there are many super foods that never see the inside of a shopping cart. Some you've never heard of, and others you've simply forgotten about. That's why we've rounded up the best of the bunch. Make a place for them on your table and you'll instantly upgrade your health -- without a prescription.

Beets

These grungy-looking roots are naturally sweeter than any other vegetable, which means they pack tons of flavor underneath their rugged exterior.

Why they're healthy: Think of beets as red spinach. Just like Popeye's power food, this crimson vegetable is one of the best sources of both folate and betaine. These two nutrients work together to lower your blood levels of homocysteine, an inflammatory compound that can damage your arteries and increase your risk of heart disease. Plus, the natural pigments -- called betacyanins -- that give beets their color have been proved to be potent cancer fighters in laboratory mice.

How to eat them: Fresh and raw, not from a jar. Heating beets actually decreases their antioxidant power. For a simple single-serving salad, wash and peel one beet, and then grate it on the widest blade of a box grater. Toss with 1 tablespoon of olive oil and the juice of half a lemon.

You can eat the leaves and stems, which are also packed with vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants. Simply cut off the stems just below the point where the leaves start, and wash thoroughly. They're now ready to be used in a salad. Or, for a side dish, sauté the leaves, along with a minced clove of garlic and a tablespoon of olive oil, in a sauté pan over medium-high heat. Cook until the leaves are wilted and the stems are tender. Season it with salt and pepper and a squeeze of lemon juice, and sprinkle with fresh Parmesan cheese.

Cabbage

Absent from most American kitchens, this cruciferous vegetable is a major player in European and Asian diets.

Why it's healthy: One cup of chopped cabbage has just 22 calories, and it's loaded with valuable nutrients. At the top of the list is sulforaphane, a chemical that increases your body's production of enzymes that disarm cell-damaging free radicals and reduce your risk of cancer. In fact, Stanford University scientists determined that sulforaphane boosts your levels of these cancer-fighting enzymes higher than any other plant chemical.

How to eat it: Put cabbage on your burgers to add a satisfying crunch. Or, for an even better sandwich topping or side salad, try an Asian-style slaw. Here's what you'll need.

4 Tbsp peanut or canola oil

Juice of two limes

1 Tbsp sriracha, an Asian chili sauce you can find in the international section of your grocery store

1 head napa cabbage, finely chopped or shredded

1/4 cup toasted peanuts

1/2 cup shredded carrots

1/4 cup chopped cilantro

Whisk together the oil, lime juice, and sriracha. Combine the remaining ingredients in a large mixing bowl and toss with the dressing to coat. Refrigerate for 20 minutes before serving. The slaw will keep in your fridge for 2 days.

Guava

Guava is an obscure tropical fruit that's subtly acidic, with sweetness that intensifies as you eat your way to the center.

Why it's healthy: Guava has a higher concentration of lycopene -- an antioxidant that fights prostate cancer -- than any other plant food, including tomatoes and watermelon. In addition, 1 cup of the stuff provides 688 milligrams (mg) of potassium, which is 63 percent more than you'll find in a medium banana. And guava may be the ultimate high-fiber food: There's almost 9 grams (g) of fiber in every cup.

How to eat it: Down the entire fruit, from the rind to the seeds. It's all edible -- and nutritious. The rind alone has more vitamin C than you'd find in the flesh of an orange. You can score guava in the produce section of higher-end supermarkets or in Latin grocery stores.

Swiss chard

Hidden in the leafy-greens cooler of your market, you'll find this slightly bitter, salty vegetable, which is actually native to the Mediterranean.

Why it's healthy: A half cup of cooked Swiss chard provides a huge amount of both lutein and zeaxanthin, supplying 10 mg each. These plant chemicals, known as carotenoids, protect your retinas from the damage of aging, according to Harvard researchers. That's because both nutrients, which are actually pigments, appear to accumulate in your retinas, where they absorb the type of shortwave light rays that can damage your eyes. So the more lutein and zeaxanthin you eat, the better your internal eye protection will be.

How to eat it: Chard goes great with grilled steaks and chicken, and it also works well as a bed for pan-seared fish. Wash and dry a bunch of Swiss chard, and then chop the leaves and stems into 1-inch pieces. Heat a tablespoon of olive oil in a large sauté pan or wok, and add two garlic cloves that you've peeled and lightly crushed. When the oil smokes lightly, add the chard. Sauté for 5 to 7 minutes, until the leaves wilt and the stems are tender. Remove the garlic cloves and season the chard with salt and pepper.

Cinnamon

This old-world spice usually reaches most men's stomachs only when it's mixed with sugar and stuck to a roll.

Why it's healthy: Cinnamon helps control your blood sugar, which influences your risk of heart disease. In fact, USDA researchers found that people with type-2 diabetes who consumed 1 g of cinnamon a day for 6 weeks (about 1/4 teaspoon each day) significantly reduced not only their blood sugar but also their triglycerides and LDL (bad) cholesterol. Credit the spice's active ingredients, methylhydroxychalcone polymers, which increase your cells' ability to metabolize sugar by up to 20 times.

How to eat it: You don't need the fancy oils and extracts sold at vitamin stores; just sprinkle the stuff that's in your spice rack (or in the shaker at Starbucks) into your coffee or on your oatmeal.

Purslane

Although the FDA classifies purslane as a broad-leaved weed, it's a popular vegetable and herb in many other countries, including China, Mexico, and Greece.

Why it's healthy: Purslane has the highest amount of heart-healthy omega-3 fats of any edible plant, according to researchers at the University of Texas at San Antonio. The scientists also report that this herb has 10 to 20 times more melatonin -- an antioxidant that may inhibit cancer growth -- than any other fruit or vegetable tested.

How to eat it: In a salad. Think of purslane as a great alternative or addition to lettuce: The leaves and stems are crisp, chewy, and succulent, and they have a mild lemony taste. Look for it at your local farmer's market, or Chinese or Mexican market. It's also available at some Whole Foods stores, as an individual leafy green or in premade salad mixes.

Pomegranate juice

A popular drink for decades in the Middle East, pomegranate juice has become widely available only recently in the United States.

Why it's healthy: Israeli scientists discovered that men who downed just 2 ounces of pomegranate juice daily for a year decreased their systolic (top number) blood pressure by 21 percent and significantly improved blood flow to their hearts. What's more, 4 ounces provides 50 percent of your daily vitamin C needs.

How to drink it: Try 100 percent pomegranate juice from Pom Wonderful. It contains no added sugars, and because it's so powerful, a small glassful is all you need. (For a list of retailers, go to www.pomwonderful.com.)

Goji berries

These raisin-size fruits are chewy and taste like a cross between a cranberry and a cherry. More important, these potent berries have been used as a medicinal food in Tibet for over 1,700 years.

Why they're healthy: Goji berries have one of the highest ORAC ratings -- a method of gauging antioxidant power -- of any fruit, according to Tufts University researchers. And although modern scientists began to study this ancient berry only recently, they've found that the sugars that make goji berries sweet reduce insulin resistance -- a risk factor of diabetes -- in rats.

How to eat them: Mix dried or fresh goji berries with a cup of plain yogurt, sprinkle them on your oatmeal or cold cereal, or enjoy a handful by themselves. You can find them at specialty supermarkets or at gojiberries.us.

Dried plums

You may know these better by the moniker "prunes," which are indelibly linked with nursing homes and bathroom habits. And that explains why, in an effort to revive this delicious fruit's image, producers now market them under another name.

Why they're healthy: Prunes contain high amounts of neochlorogenic and chlorogenic acids, antioxidants that are particularly effective at combating the "superoxide anion radical." This nasty free radical causes structural damage to your cells, and such damage is thought to be one of the primary causes of cancer.

How to eat them: As an appetizer. Wrap a paper-thin slice of prosciutto around each dried plum and secure with a toothpick. Bake in a 400°F oven for 10 to 15 minutes, until the plums are soft and the prosciutto is crispy. Most of the fat will cook off, and you'll be left with a decadent-tasting treat that's sweet, savory, and healthy.

Pumpkin seeds

These jack-o'-lantern waste products are the most nutritious part of the pumpkin.

Why they're healthy: Downing pumpkin seeds is the easiest way to consume more magnesium. That's important because French researchers recently determined that men with the highest levels of magnesium in their blood have a 40 percent lower risk of early death than those with the lowest levels. And on average, men consume 353 mg of the mineral daily, well under the 420 mg minimum recommended by the USDA.

How to eat them: Whole, shells and all. (The shells provide extra fiber.) Roasted pumpkin seeds contain 150 mg of magnesium per ounce; add them to your regular diet and you'll easily hit your daily target of 420 mg. Look for them in the snack or health-food section of your grocery store, next to the peanuts, almonds, and sunflower seeds.

Antioxidants, Explained

The science is clear: Plant foods are good for you. And the credit often goes to chemicals they produce called antioxidants. Just as the name suggests, antioxidants help protect your cells against oxidation. Think of oxidation as rust. This rust is caused by free radicals, which are unstable oxygen atoms that attack your cells, inducing DNA damage that leads to cancer. Thankfully, antioxidants help stabilize free radicals, which keeps the rogue atoms from harming your cells.

So by eating more antioxidant-rich foods, you'll boost the amount of the disease-fighting chemicals floating in your bloodstream. The result: Every bite fortifies your body with all-natural preventive medicine.

Eight More Super foods You Should Eat

Want to build more muscle, prevent disease, and live longer? It's as easy as changing your diet: Take out the packaged, processed foods, and add fresh ingredients to your meals.

Try one of the recipes below tonight. They're easy to prepare, and, unlike the "healthy" meals your mom used to make, they taste good.

SALMON - Baked Salmon with Oregano

BEANS - Barbecued Beans with Turkey Sausage

BLUEBERRIES - Blueberry Belgian Waffles

QUINOA - Southwestern Quinoa and Chickpea Salad

WALNUTS/ALMONDS - Apple Walnut Muffins Almond Macaroons

SPINACH - Baked Potato Gnocchi with Spinach and Ricotta

ARTICHOKES - Artichoke Salad

TOMATOES - Fresh Tomato Garden Soup

Jonny Bowden, PhD, CNS is a board certified nutritionist with graduate degrees in nutrition and psychology. Visit his Web site Jonny Bowden Solutions.

Monday, March 31, 2008

Congratulations Cory!

I spent the week in Missoula but on my way home I had to stop in Helena and attend Cory Forbrook's graduation from the Montana Law Enforcement Academy. Here are a few pictures.



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Monday, March 17, 2008

Busy, busy, busy

Hey girls!
I just wanted to check in and let you know that I am doing great! Only a month and a half until my husband gets to come home for good. We just found out a couple weeks ago that we have orders to Meldenhall England for May of 2009! We are SO excited! If you really want to see what I am doing check this out!

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Paperless....

I am attempting to go paperless. I am so tired of piles of paper. I cleaned my office today and I have 5 bags of shreaded paper. I love it all being on the computer instead. Now I just need a better back up plan! Save a tree, go paperless!
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Thursday, February 14, 2008

Happy Birthday, Suzanne!


Its a party just for you!


Suzanne,
It has been a long day of packing because we are doing a DITY move. I just wanted to take the time to wish you Happy Birthday!
love, Stacey

Sarah wanted to be in on the fun too!

Suzanne,
I am very sad that Stacey and I couldn't take you out for dessert for your birthday like we did for Stacey's and mine but we want you to know that we are thinking about you. I pray that your day is filled with blessings from Above! You are such a treasured friend.
love,
Katie



Suzanne,
Hey girl!!! I can't express how much I miss you and your family. We have had so many fun times together and I know we have more to come. I hope this is one of the FEW Birthdays I miss with you. Love you lots!
Love
Shannon
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Monday, February 11, 2008

14 THINGS A MILITARY WIFE GETS ANNOYED WITH

1. "Aren't you afraid that he'll be killed?"
(This one ranks in at number one on the "duh" list. Of course we're afraid. We're terrified. The thought always lingers at the backs of our minds ---but thanks brilliant, you just brought it back to the front. Maybe next you can go ask someone with cancer if they're scared of dying.)

2. "I don't know how you manage. I don't think I could do it."
(This is intended to be a compliment. Though, its just a little annoying. Here's why: it's not like all of us military wives have been dreaming since childhood of the day we'd get to be anxious single moms who carry cell phones with us to the bathroom and in the shower. We're not made of some mysterious matter that makes us more capable, we just got asked to take on a challenging job. So we rose to the challenge and found the strength to make sacrifices.)

3. "At least he's not in Iraq."
(This is the number one most annoying comment for those whose husbands are in Afghanistan. What do they think is happening in Afghanistan? An international game of golf? Guys are fighting and dying over there.)

4. "Do you think he'll get to come home for Christmas/anniversary/birthday/birth of a child/wedding/family reunion, etc?"
(Don't you watch the news? No! They don't get to come home for any of these things. Please don't ask again.)

5. "What are you going to do to keep yourself busy while he's gone?"
(Short answer: Try to keep my sanity. Maybe there's a military wife out there who gets bored when her husband leaves, but I have yet to meet her. For the rest of us, those with and without children, we find ourselves having to be two people. That keeps us plenty busy. We do get lonely, but we don't get bored, and drinking massive amounts of wine always helps keep me busy.)

6. "How much longer does he have until he can get out?"
(This one is annoying to many of us whether our husbands are deployed or not. Many of our husbands aren't counting down the days until they "can" get out. Many of them keep signing back up again and again because they actually love what they do or they VOLUNTEER AGAIN and AGAIN to go back to Iraq b/c there is work that needs to be done.)

7. "This deployment shouldn't be so bad, now that you're used to it."
(Sure, we do learn coping skills and its true the more deployments you've gone through, the easier dealing with it becomes. And we figure out ways to make life go smoother while the guys are gone. But it never gets "easy" and the bullets and bombs don't skip over our guys just because they've been there before. The worry never goes away.)

8. "My husband had to go to Europe for business once for three weeks. I totally know what you're going through."
(This one is similar to number two. Do not equate your husband's three week trip to London/Omaha/Tokyo/etc. with a 12-15 month or more deployment to a war zone. Aside from the obvious time difference, nobody shot at your husband or tried to blow him up with an I.E.D., your husband could call home pretty much any time he wanted to, he flew comfortably on a commercial plane, slept between crisp white sheets and ate well, paying for everything with an expense account. There is no comparison. We do not feel bonded to you in the slightest because of this comment and, if anything, we probably resent you a bit for it. Comparing a 12 month combat deployment to a few weeks business trip is like comparing a shitty ford taurus with mercedes convertible.)

9. "Wow you must miss him?"
(This one also gets another big "duh". Of course we miss our men. There are some wives who do not and they're now divorced.)

10. "Where is he exactly? Where is that?"
(I don't expect non-military folks to be able to find Anbar Province on a map, but they should know by now that it's in Iraq. Likewise, know that Kabul and Kandahar are in Afghanistan. Know that Muqtada al Sadr is the insurgent leader of the Mahdi Army in Iraq and that Sadr City is his home area. Know that Iran is a major threat to our country and that it is located between Afghanistan and Iraq. Our country has been at war in Afghanistan for seven years and at war in Iraq for five years. These basic facts are not secrets, they're on the news every night and in the papers every day ---and on maps everywhere.)

11. "Well, he signed up for it, so it's his own fault whatever happens over there.
(Yes, ignorant, he did sign up. Each and every day he protects your right to make stupid comments like that. He didn't sign up and ask to be hit by anything, he signed up to protect his country. Oh, and by the way, he asked me to tell you that "You're welcome." He's still fighting for your freedom.)

12. "Don't you miss sex! I couldn't do it!"
(hmmm, no i don't miss sex. i'm a robot. seriously...military spouses learn quickly that our relationships must be founded on something greater than sex. We learn to appreciate the important things, like simply hearing their voices, seeing their faces, being able to have dinner together every night. And the hard truth is, most relationships probably couldn't withstand 12 months of sex deprivation.)

13. "Well in my opinion....."
(Stop right there. Yo, I didn't ask for you your personal political opinions. Hey, I love a heated political debate, but not in the grocery store, not in Jamba Juice, not at Nordstrom, not in a bar when I'm out with my girls trying to forget the war, and CERTAINLY NOT AT WORK. We tell co-workers about deployments so when we have to spend lunch hours running our asses off doing errands and taking care of the house, dog, and kids, they have an understanding. We do not tell co-workers and colleagues because we are giving an invitation to ramble about politics or because we so eagerly want to hear how much they hate the President, esp. while we're trying to heat up our lean cuisines in the crappy office microwaves.)

last but not least....

14. "OH, that's horrible...I'm so sorry!"
(He's doing his job.Don't be sorry. Be appreciative and please take a moment out of your comfortable American lives to realize that our soldiers fight the wars abroad so those wars stay abroad.)



If you want to say anything, say thank you. After all, we are sexually deprived for your freedom